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Be careful who you confide in too. Telling the wrong person about your idea may lead to huge loss.
I have worked with someone for years and when she was 25 she thought that she new everything and would not listen to instruction. 15 years later she is dressing like I dress and has now taken up football which I have loved for years. She liked baseball and basketball and never cared about football. Now she is even rooting for my team. it's just kind of weird. It doesn't feel like flattery............
Hi Nita,
For me, flattery has more to do with the intention behind the words or actions. So, I can understand why this situation might feel somewhat weird or not flattering at all.